For the last newsletter of each month I select 3 reader questions and offer advice based off what the tarot cards say! Want to submit a question for next month’s newsletter? You may do so right here bby!

Reader question #1: I don’t like the way my life looks right now. I hate my job. I feel sad all the time. I tried medication, but that only made everything worse. I exercise frequently and journal daily and have been in therapy for years. 911 help!

Hi hunni, tbh I feel the exact same way. Not only is the world violently unwell, but please know you are not alone in this feeling!! First card I pulled is Strength and this card is all about reminding you of your fortitude. I think sometimes when we’re feeling shitty, it’s easy to forget that we’ve been through hard shit before, and we are more resilient than we think. I would encourage you to focus on the things you can control, and anything you can do to feel stronger. Strength card also encourages us to step out of our comfort zones, so I wonder if there’s anything you can do to shake up your routine. Sign up for a new class, try a new workout, have a day exploring a new neighborhood or area in your city that you haven’t explored? I wonder if by choosing something new, a new energy might show up?! Anything you aren’t changing you are actively choosing, so perhaps it’s time to take some inventory and see where you can shake anything up. Ok next up we got the 4 of Stones, and this card quite literally means to take time out to enjoy nature. Can you take a hike? Look at the ocean? Stargaze? Touch grass? Anything you can do right now to connect with Mother Earth prioritize! I don’t know too much about this beyond the fact we’re going to have the planets all align this month, but maybe do something with that?! Last card is the 7 of Stones. This card is all about faith and patience. Trust that even though things feel incredibly horrible right now, it won’t be forever. Take this wintry season of sadness and cold to plot your ascent. Take a moment to stop and breathe, so that you can plan out your next move. Manifest! Mood board! Journal your deepest thoughts and write out your heart’s wildest desires! Try to remember that quick thinking and keen insight are best paired with perseverance and patience. I need to recite that aloud at least five times without a doubt! I love you keep going!

Reader question #2: I’ve been involved with somebody long distance for six months now. Lately I’ve been noticing he’s pulling back with the amount of texting, and I feel like something is off. Is it because our charts aren’t compatible? Or should I be concerned it’s over based off the change in texting behavior?

Right off the bat I am going to encourage you to listen to your gut!! Trust that you know something has shifted, and mad kudos to you for not ignoring that feeling! Your first card is the Ace of Blades. This card means be ready to listen. Digest the info and cut to the heart of the matter. This is telling me it’s time to let your feelings be known with this person. Even something as simple as, “I feel like you’re pulling back. I really like you, but I want to check in and see how you’re feeling”, and then let your person RESPOND. While it’s normal for things to cool down as the honeymoon period wears off, if texting is important to you and this person is dropping the ball, speak up so it can be addressed! I would also argue that anyone who is worth dating will never leave you feeling anxious or guessing. Be direct and communicate, and then be ready to listen to what this person has to say. Their reaction/words/attitude/response will provide lots of information on how to proceed. Pay attention! Next you got the Empress. I love this card, it’s pure goddess on the throne ~I get everything I want cause I attract it~ vibes. Empress is someone who is living a very abundant life. Generosity! Pleasure! Creature comforts! Nature! Empress embodies joy and the pureness of love! Regardless of anything, remember to be your own Empress and embody all of these qualities. Empress is also intuitive, so trust what your gut is saying. Remember if a partner can’t appreciate your empress energy, you can show them the door. Make space for people who can! Godspeed my angel!

Reader question #3: Just got rejected by a job I thought I had in the bag. Need advice on where to go from here :(

The job market is BANANAS. As someone who only got a LinkedIn so I could be on The League, I still am flummoxed how the modern day job market is eerily similar to modern day dating. When I was job hunting after being laid off two years ago it was WILD to me how I could go on 4 rounds of interviews and get nothing but amazing feedback, only to be ghosted by the company. Also just filling out tons of applications and never hearing anything is truly such a treat!!! So I just want to say, I am so sorry about what you’re experiencing, it’s so frustrating and so so so shitty!!! Your first card is the Knight of Sticks. This means it is time to act with clarity, intent, and purpose. This is an active card which means there is no sitting back! While you might be tempted to want to wallow and be sad right now, I need you to keep it moving. Even if it isn’t necessarily applying for more jobs, I need you to reach out to your network and put out feelers. Make plans! Book a workout class! Book a trip! Anything to keep you moving right now! Stay focused, and move forward one branch at a time. I promise anything meant for you will never pass you. Next you got the Ace of Vessels. This card signifies a new beginning. Are you thirsty for a new adventure? How do you quench your thirst and fill up your heart? Take time to examine this because you will want to be ready for a new opportunity that’s coming in—be it love or friendship! Perhaps even a new job offer? Something good is coming, make sure you’re taking care of you 100p so you can be ready to receive with open arms! Also, sometimes I find that when I focus on something else besides job hunting, that’s when an offer comes up. Sometimes we need to release our grip on the reins of life you feel me? Try it and see what happens bb!

That’s all for this week! Thank you to all the readers who submitted their advice questions. Feeling FOMO you didn’t submit a q?! Do that here ! and I will feature your q in next month’s issue. Stay lucky bb’s + may the odds be ever in your favor :)